eNotAlone: Relationship Advice 17+

The name of this site is so inaccurate it's insulting. You can't come here if you just want someone to listen. Long-time users will line up to judge you, highlighting your failings and criticizing you one after another. Rarely do they offer actual encouragement or support, and even their advice is clinical in its delivery. Everything is a one-size-fits-all solution, and they jump down your throat the moment you disagree. I believe genuine help requires compassion, taking into account the other person's perspective and limitations. These people are blind to both. The only thing they're out to help is their own egos, proving their supposed wisdom and superiority. (How arrogant do you have to be to name yourself "Wiseman" on a forum like this?) Go to this site and you'll leave feeling more alone than when you came.

So the purpose of this app is to vent and my express your feelings. Well on here it's not happening as majority of the people are very judgmental! I got banned for life for accidentally posting something personal on there with all of my important and personal information on there & it's no way to delete it. I used my other account to start over and got accused by some on there for spamming and trolling? Like no one cared that my personal business was all on their as all they did was report me and then instantly with out even informing me that I was banned for life as if I would really give this app a good review when they are banning people for stupid reasons!!
Do not get this as you can be venting and the next second get banned!! Go to other better apps than this one!!

I think the people who frequently post and moderate on this forum are emotionally wounded and try to heal themselves by mastering a situation that hurt them and they do this by berating posters who they perceive as either not being as strong as the supposedly healed berater or as being someone who represents the person who hurt the berater in the past.

So I wanted to get some support on how to breakup with my girlfriend because I felt guilty. First responder insulted me. Another person asked a question. I tried to log back in to answer and found this message — You have been banned for the following reason: trolling. Date the ban will be lifted: Never

The moderators obviously get some pleasure from this little power trip. You can sense it from the way they worded the ban notice.